
What is evil but good tortured by its own hunger & mourn ?
Let’s Help Bird Beat Cancer
You probably all remember this post, back when we all hoped that @thulimo’s tumor was benign and she would be able to go home after surgery and relax and try to recover from said surgery. Sadly, that was not the case, and she’s been diagnosed with Stage II Endomterioid Ovarian Cancer, confirmed by pathology. It came with a complete hysterectomy, oophorectomy, and other medical disemboweling. In short, not a fun time for her, and she spent three days in the hospital recovering from her surgery, the weekend after back in the emergency room due to complications, had a chemo port placed on 10/28, and begins the first of six cycles of chemo on 11/5.
She’s having a really shitty time of it, guys. She’s exhausted, she’s hurting, she’s scared and who can blame her. Chemotherapy is rough, and she needs a lot of care and help while she adjusts to this new, however temporary, reality. her chemotherapy is six cycles, every three weeks, for the next approximately five months. I believe her end date is sometime in April, at which point the oncologist will start testing and scanning to make sure she is cancer free and we go from there.
We’ve both been pretty out of it, are constantly exhausted, and I am having to take time off work in order to try to get our lives under control and prepare her first chemo treatment and whatever is coming as a result of it. We need help, which is why I am posting another one of these.
HERE’S HOW YOU CAN HELP
We have a GoFundMe. We also have ko-fi; mine, and Bird’s. We also have a shared PayPal account. If you can’t afford to donate that’s completely understandable and we totally get it. Reblogs and words and messages of encouragement mean a lot to Bird and me and are just as important. Bird needs care items as well, such as loose fitting, chemo accessible clothing; hats and scarves for when she loses her hair; face masks for going out in public to help keep her from getting sick while her immune system is compromised; stuff to keep her warm as she already runs cold and she’s having the majority of her chemo in the winter months so she’s going to need more blankets and socks. Recommendations for books and movies and shows to watch during those long, six hour chemo sessions, and easy to digest recipes are also greatly appreciated! If you have ever been a caregiver and you have tips or advice for me, I would really love the help. Also, if you or someone you know is a cancer survivor and you have advice for either one of us, we would gladly welcome it!
I’m probably forgetting something, or a bunch of somethings. If you can think of something I’ve missed, yell at me. If you know of resources, yell at me. Thank you to everyone who has helped us so far, and thank you for your continued help and support. I love you, and whatever happens and whatever you do, be good to your fellow humans, whoever and wherever they are.

please make sure that wherever you’re at in life, you don’t treat it like a transitory period. don’t waste your college years wishing to already be graduated & have a job. don’t waste your single years wishing for someone to be in love with. if/when those things come, they will come in due time and they will be good. but there is nothing like looking back and feeling empty because you wasted literal years ignoring what you had because you were hoping for something better. while it’s important to better yourself and reach for your goals, don’t neglect the present because that’s where you are now and it’s your now that determines your future.
As a person of color who comes from a race where extremism has been used to protest racial injustice, can I just say that I absolutely love Feanor. In today’s political climate, we’ve seen a lot more Feanor’s. From people scaling the statue of Liberty to protest children being put in concentration camps, to riots over racial injustice, being extreme is one of the only ways we can get a point across.
Feanor has always reminded me of Malcolm X, or any other Civil Rights activist that has done the extreme and questionable to get their point across. He is an extremist, but his extremist views come from the unfair treatment he and his people received in Valinor. I think nowadays, in the midst of racial and other injustices, Feanor’s characters starts to be more relevant.
When you understand the history of rioting and protest and social injustice, than a lot of what Feanor did starts to make sense. It’s like Nat Turner and the slave revolts, or the Haitian Revolution. If people don’t listen, then often times it’s necessary to use extreminism or violence to make a point, and the violence can be bloody, but the main point is that it makes a difference, it sends message.
Stop enslaving us, stop oppressing us, stop killing us. When words don’t work, violence must. That why I like Feanor, he stayed silent and complaint for as long as he possibly could , but then the Valar allowed his things to be stolen, his father to be killed, and his people to be terrorized.
I don’t condone the kinslaying at Alqualonde ,But Doriath and Sirion were justified.
Feanor was a leader, and a Civil Rights activist imo, one of the few in Tolkien’s works. Perhaps that’s why he was so demonized. But as a person of color who deals with Civil Rights, i see a lot of myself and my people in Feanor. I’m not saying his coded to be poc, but I’m saying his struggles mirror my own.
And honestly, if you’re serious about social activism, i’d consider looking at Feanor’s character in depth.
I agree with some of your points, @diversetolkien. Personally, I’d say that Feanor’s best moments when it comes to activism were his attempts to convince people to leave Aman before the Darkening, and when he was fighting Morgoth in Beleriand and also started learning Northern Sindarin in that short time. He had a right to do the former and the Valar should have adressed it better. It is possible to tell someone that you think their idea is bad or dangerous but you’re not going to stop them or ensure they have no means of doing it. I don’t believe that the Valar had bad intentions the way most real world oppressors do, although they did make mistakes and I know there’s a lot of room for different interpretations.
But I’m not sure why you think Alqualonde is inexcusable whereas the other two Kinslayings are? For me, it’s the other way around; Alqualonde wasn’t planned to be a kinslaying, and though the Noldor were better prepared, both sides hadn’t had much experience with real combat. Of course, it’s still horrible, and Feanor definitely had been planning to steal the ships, which obviously was a bad and somewhat hypocritical idea already (given that the Teleri said they cared as much about their ships as he did about the Silmarils).
But Doriath and Sirion were definitely premeditated. It sounds like most of the Feanorions would not
have wanted to attack them if not for the Oath. It did a lot of damage to all the Elves’ capability to resist Morgoth, apart from Eärendil and Elwing managing to get the Valar to interfere, which couldn’t have been predicted. Sirion was a refugee camp. Even if you think they had zero rights to the Silmaril, I don’t see how the Sindar can be viewed as oppressors of the Feanorians. Also, none of the kinslayings were about civil rights or social activism, and the main message they sent is that the Feanorians were willing to kill for the Silmarils because of the Oath, to the detriment of other causes, and I think they’re not really comparable to most real world examples you mentioned.
Fëanor: One day, I will kill you, brother.
Fingolfin: Melkor, stop shapeshifting and messing with my family.
Melkor: Shit! How did you know??
Fingolfin: A, the real Fëanor would say “half-brother.” B, the real Fëanor wears better jewelry. C, it’s weekday morning. Unlike you dumbass, Fëanor actually has a job.

What a seagull looks like from below.
via reddit
my eyes have never been so opened
an unnameable emotion
New level of #academicdrama
This dude just called himself out in his own footnotes???
“Notoriously complacent in this regard is Freudenberg (1993).”
……but you *are* Freudenberg (1993) even though you’ve Evolved into Freudenberg (2001).
I accidentally found this Umbridge and Miss Trunchbull photo shoot, and it’s terrifying
dark children’s literature, show me the forbidden butch & femme couple